Lifebegins45, over at My Journey of Healing, shared the following links:
http://covertabuse.com/2012/06/16/feigning-negative-emotions-fear/
It was unnerving to read through this and see how my NM would turn it around on me, and a part of me wonders how well did I learn the lessons of covert abuse?
It scares me to think I may know the lessons too well.
The Project: Me by Judy 
Mother did this. I think it is why both of us mistrust emotions because we saw behind the mask and felt ticked off when other didn’t.
By: weareonebyruth on November 16, 2012
at 6:47 am
Yes.
By: Judy on November 16, 2012
at 7:12 am
Thanks for this link. My NSis is a master of this, but I also think it applies to my NM and my NMIL too.
By: jessie on November 16, 2012
at 3:17 pm
You’re welcome.
By: Judy on November 16, 2012
at 3:47 pm
Thanks for the link, Judy. My sister is the master of “hurt indignation”. I think I might need to write a post about this to get my head around it. xx
By: karabcn on November 17, 2012
at 7:00 am
You’re welcome, Kara. I’ll keep an eye open for it. For some reason, my blog roll didn’t alert me to new posts, so I’m trying to remember to check on a regular basis.
By: Judy on November 17, 2012
at 2:29 pm