Posted by: Judy | January 30, 2019


How often have I heard people say, “If I could just reason with them…”

Here’s a tip: Stop. Just stop.

A person who is willing to be reasonable will be. You don’t have to convince them. They may not agree with you, but they will hear you out without belittling you, insulting you, or yelling at you.

It was incredibly difficult but what I finally learned:

I had to accept that I cannot reason with the unreasonable and with someone who doesn’t want to be reasonable but likes to make me appear unreasonable. Bat snot crazy.


  1. Agree, some people just want to be argumentative, they are not “happy” people. So, let them be in their unhappy state, move on, don’t waste good energy on them!

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