I wish someone like candidkay had talked to me. Better late than never.
I walked into more ugly relationships than I care to remember. I didn’t think I deserved better. Frankly, I had no idea better existed. I mean, let’s face it, I thought what I was choosing WAS better. Compared to where I was, it actually was a step up. However, it took me a long time to realize I didn’t have to take baby steps out of those holes. I couldn’t jump to stellar, but I didn’t need to creep along as I did, thinking it was the best I could hope for.
Now would be a good time to state I have an awesome circle of friends now. I’m able to give more when I believe I’m worthy. Weird how that works.