Posted by: Judy | September 15, 2015

Thanks for comments yesterday…

I appreciate the perspectives shared on yesterday’s post. Giving myself today to allow the thoughts and ideas to settle. I feel like I have a deeper understanding.

I’d like to share one of my responses here:

Stream of thought: I think it comes down to a matter of choice. Ns make the decision over and over that their behavior gives them more of what they want until it becomes a habit, a way of life. It includes deciding that they are right in their choice. I don’t think it’s a matter of being rich or poor. Somewhere along the way, they decide their way is higher than any moral code. They’ll adopt an outward moral code, in the form of religion, but they have no trouble lying. Somewhere along the way, they decide to create their own world and twist and mold everything to fit their vision of their world. Woe to whoever causes even a bobble in their world. Others are merely actors on their stage to be used as needed and tossed aside when no longer of use. They are the directer, the puppet master, the creator of their world. They write and direct the show, even if they have to rewrite history to have it run the way they want it. Perhaps it’s a way of dealing with a sense of no control. An unhealthy way, but still a way they find that works for them. They convince themselves they are right, so there’s no need to change.

It’s impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone whose world is based in lies.

Side note: Storm blew through, last night. Thanks, God. Power went out in other spots in the city but not here. I also took some gorgeous pictures. This one is from the end of a storm a few weeks ago.

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Responses

  1. Yup it makes sense today too.

    • 🙂

  2. What a beautiful picture..

    • Thank you.

  3. “It’s impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone whose world is based in lies.” Yes, exactly.
    Thanks for sharing another pic of a beautiful sky. xx

    • You’re welcome. :hug:


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